Life Does Not Always Have To

It doesn't always have to make sense. Sometimes you just have to accept what is dealt to you. Otherwise, you will go insane trying to reconcile how fate is bringing you hurtful, unnecessary things despite your good intentions.

The sooner you realize that it is not fair, the sooner you may improve the odds to happiness. You do not always have to question the purpose of things. You wouldn't be better off if you constantly challenge the wisdom behind the unfolding of events.

It is not all about you. People are out to look after their own interests, too. Thus, you have to carry your own weight. It may be a struggle but you do not always have to be fighting. Sometimes, on some very serendipitous occasions, things, people and events just bring you with them. Aware but not in control, you just have to succumb to the confusion. There are just moments when all you can do is let go.

Egocentric as you are, you might think such experiences are degrading, unbecoming...because things cannot just happen to you. You've always believed that things happen for you...or, that you make them happen. To your surprise, letting go might just prove to be one of the most empowering and enlightening decisions you would ever make. Amazing as it is, you realize that it doesn't always have to make sense. Life does not always have to...